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📨 Managing Unmatched RSVPs

When guests submit their RSVP using an email or phone number that doesn’t match what you have in your Guestlist, their response appears as an unmatched RSVP. The RSVP Inbox helps you review and assign these quickly so your guestlist stays accurate.

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Written by Nina Dobrev
Updated over a week ago

❓ What Is an Unmatched RSVP

An unmatched RSVP happens when TTO can’t automatically identify the guest.
Common reasons include:

  • A guest uses a different email than the one in your Guestlist

  • A phone number was entered without a country code

  • The guest isn’t on your list yet

  • A shared household email was used by the wrong member

  • Typos or missing contact information in the Guestlist

Instead of losing the response, TTO safely stores it in your RSVP Inbox.

📥 Where to Find Unmatched RSVPs

You’ll find them in the RSVP Inbox inside the RSVP Manager.
Each entry shows:

  • Who submitted the response

  • The answers they provided

  • The contact information they used

  • Suggested matches, if available

🧩 How to Match or Assign a Response

When you open an unmatched RSVP, you can choose to:

Match to an existing guest

  • Select the correct guest from your list

  • Confirm the match

  • Their attendance and answers sync instantly

Create a new guest

If the person isn’t on your list:

  • Click Create Guest

  • They’ll be added to your Guestlist automatically

  • Their RSVP answers fill in immediately

Ignore or dismiss the response

Useful for test submissions, duplicates or invalid entries.

✏️ Fixing Incorrect Contact Information

If a match fails because your guestlist has outdated contact info:

  • Update the guest’s email or phone number in the sidebar

  • TTO will recognise them correctly for future updates

  • No need to ask the guest to re-submit

Keeping phone numbers in international format (e.g., +44) helps avoid mismatches.

🔄 What Happens After You Match

Once a response is matched:

  • Attendance updates automatically

  • Meal choices and dietary info fill sparkle fields

  • Plus-one details are added

  • RSVP totals update instantly

  • The unmatched response disappears from your inbox

Your Guestlist stays perfectly up-to-date.

💡 Tips to Reduce Unmatched RSVPs

  • Always collect both email and phone numbers when possible

  • Ensure guest details in the Guestlist are complete and accurate

  • Ask couples to share the RSVP link only with invited guests

  • Use households to help family members RSVP correctly

  • Avoid using another guest’s email when testing the form

📘 Why This Matters

Managing unmatched RSVPs keeps your event data clean and prevents:

  • Lost responses

  • Wrong attendance counts

  • Incorrect meal totals

  • Confusion on the floorplan or seating chart

  • Missing plus-one information

A clean RSVP Inbox means smoother planning and fewer surprises.


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