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💌 RSVP Overview: How TTO RSVP Works

Your RSVP system is the heart of your guest-response process. It collects attendance, plus-ones, meal choices and any custom details you need - all syncing instantly with your Guestlist to keep planning organised, accurate and stress-free.

Written by Nina Dobrev

The RSVP Manager is your central place to collect, review and manage all guest responses. You can:

  • Collect RSVPs via your website or RSVP link

  • Let guests confirm attendance for one or multiple events

  • Capture plus-ones (named or unnamed)

  • Collect dietary needs, meals and custom responses

  • Auto-fill missing Guestlist information

  • Send RSVP links via invites or copy/paste

  • Review unmatched responses in your RSVP Inbox

  • Track attendance and response progress in real time

Everything stays up-to-date without manual follow-ups.

🔗 How RSVP Syncs With Your Guestlist

TTO connects guest responses automatically:

  • Guests reply using their email or phone

  • TTO matches them to the correct guest profile

  • ✨ Sparkle fields like attendance, meals and allergies auto-update

  • Plus-one details are added instantly

  • Unmatched responses go to your RSVP Inbox for you to review

No manual data entry - everything syncs seamlessly.

🆕 New: Choose How Guests Identify Themselves

Under Advanced → Identification, you can now choose how guests find their invitation when RSVPing:

  • Email or phone — Guests enter an email or phone number from your guest list (this is the default)

  • Name — Guests type a name and pick from suggestions

📌 Note: Both options can be selected at once, giving guests a choice of either method when identifying themselves.

⚠️ Important privacy note: If you enable the Name option, anyone with the RSVP link can see matching guest names as they type — including who they're grouped with (their household). Couples with privacy or safety concerns about their guest list should weigh this carefully before enabling name-based identification.

🧩 What You Can Manage in the RSVP Manager

✔ Collect attendance
Guests confirm “Yes” or “No” for each event they’re invited to.

✔ Manage multi-event RSVPs
Ideal for weddings with: Ceremony, Reception, Welcome Party, Rehearsal Dinner, After-Party, Brunch.

✔ Capture plus-ones
Allow guests to add names or leave them blank.

✔ Ask custom questions
Meals, allergies, transport, accommodation, kids attending, song requests — anything you need.

✔ Set RSVP deadlines
Keep planning on schedule with clear cut-off dates.

✔ Review unmatched RSVPs
Assign, approve or ignore unlinked responses.

✔ Track response progress
See who’s replied and which events are filling up.

✔ Edit guest responses
Update attendance or details anytime.

📘 Why the RSVP System Matters

Your RSVP data powers key areas of your event:

  • Guestlist details

  • Seating plan

  • Catering counts

  • Transportation

  • Accommodation

  • Event capacity

  • Wedding website updates

  • Guest communication

Accurate RSVPs mean accurate planning — everything works together with minimal effort.


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